Nowadays, most people no longer believe in love, or rather speaking of relationships between couples with long-term relationships, the feeling you often get is that of being afraid of not being enough for the other person or that the person may cheat on you sooner or later. These fears that arise from past traumas can greatly influence our perception and also the way we approach others.
I fear that we are growing up in a generation of young people who, when they grow up, will be afraid to love, afraid to give themselves completely to another person, because they will have understood how painful it is to run the risk, to love and discover that it doesn't work. I fear that, as adults, they will seek intimacy without risk, pleasure without substantial emotional investment. They will be so afraid of the suffering generated by disappointment that they will give up the possibility of loving and being happy.
HAROLD KUSHNER
Happily ever after Does Exist! It is a goal that is building every day. It is a choice to stay and fight every obstacle that arises in front of you, without denying your own person, or that of our partner but improving ourselves together, accepting and understanding the person who is at our side, without expecting the perfection but remaining in the perseverance of continuous improvement. By building together solid and incorruptible pillars, such as Trust, Loyalty and Acceptance, without which, in my opinion, the relationship would remain vulnerable.
4 ACTIONS THAT IMPROVE THE RELATIONSHIP
1. COMMUNICATION
Communication is a very important key to a healthy and long-lasting relationship. Communication allows both in the couple to express their emotions, both pleasant and unpleasant.
2. ATTENTION
Giving your full attention to your partner without distractions, putting your phones aside, helps create more intimate and authentic spaces.
3. APPRECIATE AND GIVE SMALL ACTS OF CARE
Very often we are so focused on our own routine that we end up forgetting to recognize and appreciate small acts of care, or even worse consider them due.
4. PATIENCE
Being patient means respecting and loving each other. Recognize the other as a person and tolerate the differences that inevitably exist
Being in a relationship, in general, requires effort and commitment from both parties, it requires patience and perseverance as the bible describes the true essence of Love.Love is Patience,Love is Kind,Love does not envy,Love does not boast,Love is not proud,Love is not rude,Love is not self-seeking,Love is not easily angered,Love keeps no record of wrongs,Love does not delight in evil,Love rejoices with the truth,Love always Protect,Love always Trust,Love always Hopes,Love always Perseveres,Love never fails.1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
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